You still don't understand. This isn't about you or me, what we've personally done or what's happened to us. It's about the systems surrounding us. That's how privilege manifests.

From the sounds of it, You've had a much harder life than me. I grew up upper-middle class and pretty well off. Sorry that your circumstances haven't been as seemingly favorable as mine have.

Despite all that, if both you and I were to end up in the same emergency room, unconscious let's say, with similar maladies, your survival odds are better because of your skin color. Doesn't matter what you've done in life or what's happened to you. That's what I'm talking about when I say "privilege". And that's just one example.

I.e. - it isn't about you or me as individuals.