Not just a bad decision - an act of outright aggression. Weaponized white tears from women are equivalent to assault from their counterpart white men. Think of this as a hate crime that often results in loss of life for the BIPOC person involved.
This is not a mistake. Those that do this know exactly what they are doing, and how big an intentional threat this is. How would you view her humanity if she had lunged at this person with a knife? How would the internet view that?
If people can shame over glue in hair, then they can shame over threatening someone's life. You claim to be a leftist. This is me telling you to please check your bias.